I don’t want to have to be supermom, you know? But if all goes according to plan, I’ll be a bitch PhD too. I’ve been wondering for a long time how to get a partner to do his share of the housework, because other things can be fixed, but that’s a day to day kind of thing, and they might say they’ll help at first, but you hear way too many stories from married feminists saying they do all the housework no matter what they try. But I do kind of like the idea of just doing it, but narrating it so that he knows how much more you’re doing than he is. If that doesn’t make him want to pitch in, he’s probably not somebody I want to be with.
I’m not really explaining the background on this very well (at all?) but that’s because I know I need to be doing something else and I just want to save the link for myself. Maybe someday I’ll go into it.